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There are sheep, and there are goats, and they look remarkably the same. "Discernment" is the ability, learned through time, wisdom, and experience, to differentiate between the two.

There are sheep, and there are goats, and they look remarkably the same. “Discernment” is the ability, learned through time, wisdom, and experience, to differentiate between the two.

In our younger years, prior to children, the Norwegian Artist and I traveled through and lived in South America, where our most fervent hope was that we would be thought to be Canadians, Danes, Australians, or anything other than Americans, for two main reasons:

1) Because of our exported media products — movies and TV shows — people were convinced that all Americans are rich and carry massive amounts of cash on them,

and

2) Nobody liked our president. Everything he did and said, they blamed on us.

“We are not our politicians or our media moguls,” we told those who would listen. “They speak for us as about as much as your politicians, or your guerrilla groups, speak for you.”

Sometimes, that got through, but most of the time they countered with, “But where do you park all of your cars?”

Sigh.

As Christians, we face a similar problem today, and again it stems from media and national icons: non-Christians judge us upon the voices of self-appointed leaders who keep cropping up, like fungus on the backside of a log, “speaking” (and writing, and selling books) purportedly for Christ.

Please follow the link to read the rest at False Leaders, Speaking in Our Name, at my BeliefNet Blog, Commonsense Christianity. As individual Christians, we need to be strong enough in our relationship with Christ that 1) we recognize the wolves and 2) we don’t follow them!

The artwork in my articles is by my Norwegian Artist, Steve Henderson, whose work is available as original paintings and licensed open edition prints. The painting show is Golden Opportunity.

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Leaving Church — Why Do People Do It?

People who decide to leave church generally do it after much prayer and consideration.

Years ago, when we still attended weekly church services, a longtime acquaintance (that’s generally what we are in church situations — we’re rarely given time to freely mingle and get to know one another as friends) left.

If you attend church, you know how this goes: Bob and Allison aren’t there one week. Probably sick, or out of town. Because we’re only longtime acquaintances, we don’t call and ask, and besides, isn’t that what the visitation committee members do? It’s their ministry.

And then another week goes by. Must be a family emergency. We’ll pray for them, when we have the time.

Another week, and another, until six months later when we think, “Bob and Allison haven’t been here for, whoa, a long time. How sad. They must have left the Lord, and they’re backsliding.”

Please read the rest at What Kind of People Leave Church? at my BeliefNet blog, Commonsense Christianity. I am unable to post the entire article in more than one place, so I am most grateful to those of you who follow the link and read the whole thing.

If you have your own leaving church story, or, I’m-still-hanging-on-but-I’m-frustrated, please feel free to leave a comment.

A generous selection of Steve Henderson artwork is available at Framed Canvas Art, as licensed open edition prints.

This article is linked to Missional Woman, Womanhood with a Purpose, Essential Things, God’s Girl, Christian Mom Blogger, Happy and Blessed Home, Anything Goes, Love Bakes Good Cakes, The Jenny Evolution, A look at the Book, Counting my BlessingsModest MomA Mama’s StoryWhat Joy is MineLife of FaithMoms the WordWomen of WorshipThe Multi-tasking MumThe Fairy and the FrogStitch by StitchMonday manic link upEnchanted Homeschooling MomMopping the FloorFrugal Crafty Home

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Recipe: Thai Stir Fry Steak Salad

Once all of the vegetables and the meat are chopped, putting together this salad is fast and fun.

I love Thai food, at least my Polish American version of it. A real Thai person, cooking real Thai food, would probably be horrified, but my family tells me that what they taste from my kitchen shares flavors with what we taste when we eat at our favorite restaurant (one of those hole-in-the-wall, really ugly on the outside but amazing food, always, on the table), so if they’re happy, I’m happy.

As with any stir-fry dish, most of the time you spend making this involves chopping the ingredients. The actual cooking is fast and furious, and if you have everything ready beforehand within easy reach, you’ll feel like a professional Polish-American chef deftly creating mock Thai food.

Thai Stir Fry Steak Salad — recipe makes four decent-sized dinner salads

Ingredients:

2 cups cooked rice (I used brown rice, and tossed turmeric in the water with the salt and oil; if you don’t have turmeric, don’t worry, but consider buying some — it’s not very expensive — to have on hand to add to chicken, fish, and rice dishes)

Here are the vegetables and the meat, ready to jump into the pan. Once I dump the ingredients into the pan, I quickly wipe the plate that held them clean, rinse it, and let it dry before turning back to the stir fry.

6 Tablespoons oil (I used light olive, but coconut would be delicious), divided

1 Tablespoon Mae Ploy Red Curry paste (if you’re in the Walla Walla area, the Asian Oriental store carries this and other terrific products for Asian cooking)

1 head red or green lettuce — cut into ribbons (NOT ice berg — if you don’t get your lettuce from Deer Pond Gardens or your Farmer’s Market, look for the leafy green stuff, preferably organic, spray-free, and chemical-free — remember how “they” used to say, “You are what you eat”? Isn’t it funny how we don’t hear that much anymore?)

4 ounces Kale, cut into ribbons

1/2 onion, sliced thinly

2 x 2 piece of ginger root, peeled and grated (if you’ve never used ginger before, give it a try — the fresh stuff imparts a distinctive taste; if you don’t have it, don’t not make the dish)

1 head garlic, peeled and minced

8 ounces red meat, cut into small, 1/2 inch pieces (you can use more meat if you want; mine was organic, grass fed, and I wanted to make a little stretch a long way)

3/4 cup water

1 Tablespoon Better Than Beef Bouillon (you can get this at Costco)

1/2 of a 14.5 ounce can diced tomatoes, with juice

1 cup green onions

Cilantro, one bunch, chopped

Another view of the vegetables before cooking.

For the dressing:

6 ounces mild olive oil

3 ounces lemon juice

3 Tablespoons sugar

small handful of cilantro, chopped

reduced beef/tomato juice mixture from cooking the meat

Divide the ribboned lettuce onto four plates.

While the rice is cooking, chop and prepare all of your vegetables, and arrange them in bowls or on small plates so that you can toss them into the wok or frying pan as you go.

Heat three tablespoons of the oil, over high heat, in a saute pan or wok. When hot, add the curry paste and stir quickly for 20 seconds. Toss in the sliced onions and coat with the curry paste. Stir quickly for 2 minutes.

Add the Kale and stir fry 2-3 minutes, quickly, until wilted. Add the green onions and stir 30 seconds more.

Spoon the hot stir fry mixture over the greens on the plates. Divide the rice and arrange it on top of the vegetables.

Heat the remaining 3 tablespoons oil over high heat until hot. Toss in the garlic and ginger, stir 20 seconds, then add meat and toss quickly for 30 seconds. Add the water and the one tablespoon bouillon and stir until the bouillon is dissolved. Add the tomatoes. Toss until the meat is cooked.

With a slotted spoon, scoop out the meat and tomatoes and toss them over the vegetables and rice on the salad plates. Return the pan to the heat, turn the heat down to medium high, and let the liquid reduce by cooking for 1 minute more.

To make the dressing, combine the oil, sugar, lemon juice, cilantro, and reduced beef/tomato juice. With a wire whisk or immersion blender, combine until the oil is thoroughly blended and the mixture is emulsified.

Divide over the salads. Garnish with cilantro.

Cooking for yourself is one of the easiest ways to start saving money, and cooking does not have to be time consuming or complicated. My book, Live Happily on Less, walks you, through a series of friendly essays, into the journey of living well, on what you have now.

 

 

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Praying for a Sign? Don’t.

We don't need to be looking for signs from the sky to know that God loves and cares for us. Peace, original oil painting by Steve Henderson of Steve Henderson Fine Art.

We don’t need to be looking for signs from the sky to know that God loves and cares for us. Peace, original oil painting by Steve Henderson of Steve Henderson Fine Art.

Signs and wonders: they fascinate us. We marvel at the crossing of the Red Sea, Jesus’ feeding of 5,000 and 4,000, even Gideon with his soggy sheep fleece.

One part of us asks, “Is this really true?” while another part says, “Do this for me, God! Do this for me!”

And within contemporary Christian culture, we are often encouraged to “ask for a sign,” because, we are assured, Gideon did this (multiple times), and God honored his request. He can do no less for us, we’re told, and indeed, if we have enough faith, we force His hand.

But we’re not Gideon, my friends, (Judges 6-8) and God isn’t asking us to wipe out an overwhelming Midianite enemy by shouting, blowing on trumpets, and breaking jars. If the story of Gideon tells us anything, it’s that God gets the credit for winning our battles. Gideon’s story isn’t one extolling a man’s faith, but rather his reluctance, and God’s gracious understanding of that fear.

Please read the rest of the article at Why You (Probably) Shouldn’t Pray for a Sign at my column, Commonsense Christianity at BeliefNet. I know it’s a hassle following a link, and I’d print the whole story here if I could, but I can’t. I appreciate your patience and understanding.

You might also enjoy this special feature, Four Lies Creeping into Today’s Christian Church.

Steve Henderson’s inspiring and beautiful artworks are available as original paintings as well as licensed, open edition prints through retailers such as Great Big Canvas, iCanvasART, Amazon.com, Light in the Box, and Framed Canvas Art.

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Three Horses: The Story of This Painting

Three Horses graze peacefully in the warmth of the sun in Steve Henderson’s original oil painting, Three Horses, available at the Steve Henderson Fine Art website.

The story of the painting, Three Horses, by Steve Henderson at Start Your Week with Steve:

There is always a sense of, “All is right with the world,” when you pass by a group of horses grazing in a meadow.

The pace is relaxed, stately, sedate. On a sunny day, the horses move in and out of the shadows, following the greenery at the same time that they keep a loose eye on one another. This is group activity at its best: each individual focused on his task, while simultaneously aware of the presence of others.

Three Horses takes place in the Salmon River Mountains of Idaho, an untamed, wild area of the west where people still ride their horses. There are ranches, farms; down near the river skillful rafters lead tourists over whitewater rapids. In a similar attitude to the horses, individuals live their lives, focused on their businesses and families, while keeping an eye out for one another.

Serenity, quiet, peace, and reflection are favorite themes explored by Steve Henderson in his artwork. Shades of Turquoise, original oil painting at Steve Henderson Fine Art, 12 x 12.

Stillness. Quiet. Space. We all need these elements operating in our lives, but in the hustle and hurry of modern life, where our phones keep track of our every move, we can get through an entire day sometime without stopping and listening to . . . nothing. Three Horses takes us to a peaceful place where we can close our eyes, feel the sunlight on our face and the breeze in our hair, and hear the soft whoosh of a horse as it moves from one nibble to the next.

Three Horses is available as an original oil painting at Steve Henderson Fine Art. Its compact size, 9 x 12 before framing (the frame is included in the purchase and results in a finished hanging size of 12 x 15), means that it fits anywhere, either tucked into an alcove, or prominently displayed on a wall all to itself. Its reasonable price means that you can afford an original painting, even if you have never bought one before.

Step by Step Watercolor Success is just that — a DVD that walks the beginning and intermediate artist through the steps it takes to complete a successful watercolor painting. Available at Amazon.com

Shipping is free to the U.S. and Canada. All other areas, contact us and we’ll figure out the shipping charges.

Please contact Carolyn@SteveHendersonFineArt.com for information on Three Horses or any of Steve Henderson’s original and licensed fine art paintings.

Read the rest of this newsletter at Start Your Week with Steve.

Check out Steve’s artwork at Steve Henderson Fine ArtOriginal paintings — licensed open edition prints — Santa and Holiday. Steve’s licensed work is available at Great Big CanvasiCanvasARTAmazon.comLight in the Box, and Framed Canvas Art.

If you are a manufacturer who would like to use Steve’s artwork on your products, please contact his agents, Matt Appelman (matt.appelman@artlicensing.com). You can see Steve’s Art Licensing page here.

Check out, also, Steve and Carolyn’s products at Amazon.com:

Live Happily on Less: 52 Ways to Renovate Your Life and Lifestyle (paperback and digital book)

Grammar Despair: Quick, simple solutions to problems like, “Do I say Him and Me or He and I?” (paperback and digital book)

Step by Step Watercolor Success (digital DVD workshop designed for beginning to intermediate watercolor students and artists)

 

 

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Money Isn’t the Only Blessing

Sunshine is a gift that all creatures on the planet enjoy. Three Horses, original oil painting by Steve Henderson.

Years ago, I spoke with a new mom about being lonely, and mentioned that I had experienced my share of that painful condition.

“Oh, I’m not LONELY!” she shot back, as if we were discussing leprosy or something.

You get the same reaction when you admit, “I would love to have a little more money, just to make things easier, you know.”

“Oh, I never pray for MONEY!” insecure Christians counter in alarm.

Oh, come on, people — of course you pray for money. If it weren’t such a pressing need in our lives Jesus wouldn’t have told us not to worry about what we eat, drink, or wear (all of which require money) in Matthew 6: 31.

That being said, many of us have more than we think we do, especially in wealthier countries. And while it’s tempting to pray for enough money that we never have to worry about paying for anything again, we forget that we have access to some very precious treasures that cost little, or nothing. It’s worth recognizing their existence and being grateful:

Please follow the link to 5 Blessings You Don’t Have to Be Rich to Enjoy at my BeliefNet Column, Commonsense Christianity. I would print the whole piece here if I could, but can only post a sample.

Have you written a book, and you’re looking for an image to put on the cover? Steve Henderson’s art is licensed through Art Licensing, and they can help you with the process of getting the right image for your publication. Click on the picture to see available images.

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God Cares about Our Dreams

Dreams are a growing, living thing, in the hands of God. Field of Dreams, original oil painting by Steve Henderson.

From the time we are schoolchildren, we are regularly assured,

“You can be anything you want to be. Just dream it, and it will come true.”

Do an Internet search on “following your dreams” and you’ll come up with everything from Dream Believe Achieve (or, Dream Believe Receive for the Christian version) to You Can Do It! Just Believe! (Christian version: God Will Do It! Just Believe!)

We all have dreams, desires, hopes, and aspirations — part of being made in the image of God is that we desire to create, just like our Father. The significant difference between us and Him is that while He creates out of nothing, we create under His guidance, teaching, and direction:

“To a man belong the plans of the heart,” Proverbs 16: 1 tells us, “but from the Lord comes the reply of the tongue,” and in 16: 9, “In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps.”

These verses take us beyond inane reassurances that Belief alone, and enough of it, will lead us to our goal.

Read the rest of the article at When Our Dreams Never Come True, which is at my BeliefNet column, Commonsense Christianity. Please follow the link, because I can’t publish the whole piece in two places.

Are you planning a retreat for your group or camp? If you’d like an image for a t-shirt or other aspect of your group activity, consider the art of Steve Henderson (my husband, the Norwegian Artist). Our licensing company, Art Licensing, will work with you to affordably use an image of beauty, hope, peace, and joy, like Ocean Breeze, below. Contact me, Carolyn@SteveHendersonFineArt.com, to get the process going. You can also use the Contact form on the Steve Henderson Fine Art site.

Ocean Breeze is one of many fine art images by Steve Henderson available for licensing onto products — and you don’t have to be a major manufacturer to do this.

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False “Christian” Teaching

Some of the things we’re learning in church, through books, and on TV these days are a little shady. Moonlit Night on the Coppei, original painting by Steve Henderson, sold.

Apostasy is nothing new in Christianity. Two thousand years ago Jesus warned that false prophets “come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves.” (Matthew 7: 15)

Given that we, the people of God, are frequently referred to as sheep, the term “sheep’s clothing” imparts the disquieting concept that these false prophets will inveigle their way into the church itself, potentially fooling the saints (Matthew 24: 24).

According to the apostle Peter, false teachers arise not only in the general populace (“among the people”) but in the church as well (“among you”). Peter is scathing in his commentary:

“They will secretly introduce destructive heresies . . . In their greed these teachers will exploit you with stories they have made up.” (2 Peter 2: 1, 3)

While these words were written two thousand years ago, some things never change, and many of Satan’s appealing lies just never go away. They just remove the robe and put on a suit. Here are four we are battling today:

Please follow the link and read the rest at Four Lies Creeping into the Christian Church at my blog, Commonsense Christianity at BeliefNet. I would post the whole article here, but am precluded from doing so.

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Lady in Waiting — The Story of this Painting

Waiting is a part of life. Perhaps there is an art to it. Lady in Waiting, original oil painting by Steve Henderson; licensed open edition print at iCanvasART

The story of the painting, Lady in Waiting, by Steve Henderson, at Start Your Week with Steve:

The sheer exuberance of color — vibrant, pulsating lavender set against warm, glowing oranges — is the backdrop for a quiet moment at dusk. Sunset on the sea in the background adds a sense of contemplation and meditation to the young woman, poised in the portico. Glancing to the landscape to her left, she is waiting for someone special.

The warmth of the day is gently disappearing with the sun, and a slight briskness causes the waiting woman to draw her shawl closer around her shoulders. There is a sense of anticipation, even longing, but not impatience. The person for whom she is waiting will come.

Waiting is a part of life, and many a person who has said, “I’m too impatient to wait!” discovers that, given that there is no choice in the matter, we frequently wait for longer periods than we ever thought we could. Of course, when it’s all over and we’re looking back on the experience, we often observe, 

It is a dance, isn’t it? And we hope that we negotiate life with grace, beauty, spirit, and joy. Dancer, original oil painting by Steve Henderson; licensed open edition print at iCanvasART



“I didn’t like it at the time, but I wouldn’t go back and take away the experience, even if I could.”

Waiting changes us, stretches us, causes us to grow, mature, and slow ourselves down. If we are inclined to the spiritual, we find waiting to be a deepening experience, frequently nudging us into the arms of God.

Lady in Waiting is available as an original oil painting, 24 x 30 oil on panel, directly from the website. The accompanying frame is included in the purchase price. Lady in Waiting is also available as a licensed open edition print at iCanvasART. Steve’s work is perfect for home decor, office art, and licensing.

Writing is an art form of its own, but all of us, regardless of how well we dance the dance, must and need to write. Grammar Despair will help you solve the common little problems that plague the best of us. At Amazon.com.

Please contact Carolyn@SteveHendersonFineArt.com for information on Lady in Waiting or any of Steve Henderson’s original and licensed fine art paintings.

Read more at Start Your Week with Steve.

Check out Steve’s artwork at Steve Henderson Fine ArtOriginal paintings — licensed open edition prints — Santa and Holiday. Steve’s licensed work is available at Great Big CanvasiCanvasARTAmazon.comLight in the Box, and Framed Canvas Art.

If you are a manufacturer who would like to use Steve’s artwork on your products, please contact his agents, Matt Appelman (matt.appelman@artlicensing.com). You can see Steve’s Art Licensing page here.

Check out, also, Steve and Carolyn’s products at Amazon.com:

Live Happily on Less: 52 Ways to Renovate Your Life and Lifestyle (paperback and digital book)

Grammar Despair: Quick, simple solutions to problems like, “Do I say Him and Me or He and I?” (paperback and digital book)

Step by Step Watercolor Success (digital DVD workshop designed for beginning to intermediate watercolor students and artists)

 

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Bad Choices, New Age Advice, and God’s Mercy

Seminar speakers condense life into neat, tidy Facebook memes, but actually living life takes a few more words. Iglesia Colombiana, original oil painting by Steve Henderson, sold.

Tough love.

It’s an oxymoronic — or maybe just moronic — psychological phrase that has crept its way into Christian thought. We’ve been told it’s the solution to codependent relationships, another psychophrase bandied about more frequently than words like grace, mercy, charity, patience, or perseverance, and Christians instruct one another that when people make bad choices, well, they’ve got to live with them, and it’s part of our tough love stance to make them see the light.

(I’m not sure what that light is, in this particular case, but I’d guess it has little to do with the True Light of the World.)

Recently, I found a meme wandering through my Facebook account, from new age guru Greg Braden:

“Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It’s not your parents, past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice that you make. Period.”

Gosh this sounds tough and cool and hip and witty and wise, and to a certain extent, it expresses truth:

Read the rest of this blog at Are We Stuck with Our Bad Choices Forever?

For those of you who wonder, why doesn’t she print the whole article right here? I can’t — the whole article is the province of BeliefNet, but I provide a teaser and a link to encourage you to find me, get back at me, and think about the Christianity you profess.

It’s worth walking the narrow, difficult path that Christ talks about — but it’s certainly not easy!

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